Friday, July 11, 2008

Notes on a man-dal

Flustrating.
That would be the word (yeah yeah, I know it's not a real word...but still).
He's just so...grr!
I know that you have to get along with the best friend. But really...does the best friend have to be a girl? A pretty girl at that? And a pretty girl that every guy drools over? Seriously.
Not only that, but it seems like they have something going on...you know, one of those, "I'm not taken, you aren't taken, so we'll do what we need to get ours til we have someone" relationships. That tells me they may as well date. But one or both haven't committed.
Frankly, I'm not willing to go back down that pathway. I made that mistake once, with a fiancee and his female best friend. Yah, they are married now. Forget that.

Last night, I purposefully did not get all pissy. I purposefully was nice, to him, to her (well, especially to her). So, tell me how trying to use the "sugar not vinegar" technique didn't work. It always works. I'm not quite following this.
Seriously, do we only work if we are arguing, or competitive, with each other? Is that really what does it for us? Honestly, I think that is proof just how toxic a relationship could feasibly be.

Men: can't live with em and ya just can't shoot em.

On another note, should I get this hair cut? I'm a huge fan of the pixie cut, with a razored edge. And my hair has grown out way way way too much. So, I'm thinkin the old school Natalie Imbruglia. I think that's wa'ssup. Maybe I'll even go a dark brown for it...never know.


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